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July 2026 Issue

Current issue of Typical Female.

Point / Counterpoint

I am not cold. You are wearing too many layers.
Her side

I am not cold. You are wearing too many layers.

For nineteen years I sat in conference rooms in a cardigan and accepted that my body was the problem. Then I read the 1966 thermostat study. Forty-year-old man, 154 pounds, business suit. He is dead. The setting he picked has outlived him by sixty years and is currently making the entire fifth floor of my building uninhabitable for women between 38 and 60. We are 41% of the staff. Take off the jacket. I am not the one running cold. You are the one running cold. The room is set for him. Take. Off. The. Jacket.

You changed it again.
His side

You changed it again.

I get up to use the bathroom at 4 AM and the room is 64 degrees and there is a fan pointed at the bed at full speed and my wife is sleeping like she is on vacation. I am wearing pajama pants and a long-sleeve shirt and socks and I am still cold. I love this woman more than anyone on earth and I would walk through fire for her and I will not say a word about the thermostat. I will, however, get a second comforter. And a hat. I am writing this in a hat.

Open Essays

The Thermostat War

The Thermostat War

For two years I logged the temperature in our conference room before every meeting. I have the data. I have the chart. I have the receipts. And the room is still set for him.

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The Window in August

The Window in August

My daughter was born July 14. By August she had heat rash in three folds I did not know a body could have. We did not have air conditioning. I nursed her in a wet sports bra for si...

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Heated

Heated

In the meeting I made a clear, sourced, three-sentence objection. The senior partner said: "Let’s not get heated about this." Nobody else in the room was heated. I was the heat.

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What I Tell My Doctor

What I Tell My Doctor

I have a list of symptoms I tell my doctor and a list I do not. The list I do not tell is longer. I learned which list a symptom went on the third time I got the answer "have you t...

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Sleep

Sleep

We have negotiated the thermostat in this bedroom 4,127 times. I know because we have been married 19 years and we sleep next to each other every night and I am the one who logs ev...

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Father’s Fan

Father’s Fan

There was one oscillating fan in our apartment in Karachi in the summers. It pointed at my father. My mother cooked at the gas range eight feet from it. I was nine when I noticed.

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The Raw

Unfiltered submissions on living with female stereotypes.

By the Numbers

1 in 3
US women whose hot flashes disrupt work, sleep, or both during the perimenopause transition (NIH National Institute on Aging, 2024 review)
73°F
Default office thermostat setting, calibrated in a 1966 study using a single 40-year-old male office worker as the standard (Kingma & van Marken Lichtenbelt, Nature Climate Change, 2015)
2.5×
How much more likely women are than men to wait more than a year for a diagnosis of their primary medical symptom (Lancet Women’s Health Commission, 2020)
26%
Of US women aged 40–65 whose healthcare provider did not initiate a conversation about menopause — they had to ask first (Mayo Clinic Proceedings, 2024)

Voices Across Generations

One question. Four ages. No editing.

“When did you first realize you were running hot — and someone close to you didn’t believe it?”

“A boyfriend in college told me my anger was scary. I had been calm. He had been late. I am 22 and I have already learned the word for what he was doing.”

“I told my mother I was always cold growing up. She told me I was wrong. I was the warmest one in the house. She had decided I was cold the day I was born.”

“I asked my husband, in 2003, if I could turn the AC down. He said sure. He turned it back up an hour later. We never had the second conversation. We have not had it yet, twenty-three years later.”

“I realized I was running hot in 1989. I told nobody. I waited it out. It took eleven years. Nobody believed me about anything I felt in those eleven years. I would like them back.”

Question of the Week

“What do you cool yourself with that no one taught you to use?”